Sunday, July 30, 2006

Don't Blame

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage.

They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their

eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning

the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for

office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it

in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen

totally forgot the matter.

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle

fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to

be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages.

When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the

hospital. He died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified

how she was going to face her husband.

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the

dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.





QUESTIONS :


1. What were the five words ?





2. What is the implication of this story?





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ANSWER :





The husband just said "I am with you Darling".
The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive

behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back

to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother.

Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away,

this would not have happened.

No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child.

What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy

from the husband. That is what he gave her. If everyone can

look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be

much fewer problems in the world. "A journey of a thousand

miles begins with a single step." Take off all your envies,

jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you

will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.






MORAL OF THE STORY





This story is really worth reading. Sometimes we spend time

in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a

relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this

way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.

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